This question was raised by a husband who had been introduced to the idea of "domestic discipline" by his wife. I take the same approach with each new implement we try. He doesn't scream at me nor strike me. Unless a man is an absolute dolt, he knows when a woman is ready to have sex. A mature dominant woman wise and experienced in the control and discipline of submales. It is so much easier now to obey and respect him. It was all so disorienting.
Marriage and Spanking in the Bedroom: Thoughts on Intimacy and Trust
Just want him to get the message. I tell her to get a particular implement, and put it within easy reach. She is not switched on by receiving though. What was worse was he didn't spank me for my admission of having unfaithful thoughts. Spanker one on One says: That's why this lifestyle works for us.
Thank you in advance, RR. Brilliant post, full of great tips which DO work! There are basically two ways of spanking with an open hand. Different positions will stretch or relax the skin, making each slap a different sensation. Bob's Kink Photography Dr.
You may have seen our Paddling Princess, clad in black and roaming the aisles ready to deliver the paddle of a lifetime to anyone willing to take the hit. We do not want the spankings to be a sexual act despite my being naked during the spanking, so after the spanking I stand facing the corner until a timer goes off. Maybe restraints are on the menu. DH, I really love your post! Spanking might be one of the consequences or penalties imposed when guidelines or rules are violated, but it might not be.